You’re feeling stuck and unable to move on after your divorce.
You’re frustrated that you can’t let go of the guilt and self-doubt that’s messing with your head.
You’re afraid that you’ll be alone for the rest of your life.
But don’t worry. I’ve got your back. And I’m here to take care of you.
No amount of self-help books or therapy visits or support groups or dates seemed to help.
And although from the outside, my coworkers thought I had everything together and I excelled at work, at home I was a complete mess.
I was embarrassed and ashamed to keep talking about how stuck I was with close friends and family, because I just knew they were probably wondering, “ugh, why isn’t she just over it? How long has she already been divorced?”
It isn’t just about getting back out there.
It’s many factors--some deeply hidden inside you that you’re not even aware of--that need to be addressed and reversed so you can quickly heal.
After my divorce, friends and co-workers started asking me for help. They were at the beginning of their divorce process, and were scared and needed advice. This work inspired me to start Surviving Your Split, my award-winning blog that gave women the know-how for navigating their own divorce with courage and confidence.
In 2015, the Huffington Post published a blog post of mine, and Surviving Your Split went international. Major publications asked if they could share my advice and they haven’t stopped.
One day in 2016, a friend innocently asked if there was such a thing as a divorce coach, which changed the course of my life.
I discovered the International Coaching Federation, underwent their intensive certification process, and received the CDC® Certified Divorce Coach accreditation.
Since then, I have professionally coached 100+ women, teaching them how to get unstuck after their divorce and get the life of their dreams.
Using laser-like precision, we’ll identify your biggest struggles and outline exactly what it will take to overcome them.
We’re going to dig deep (in a safe space) and expose the hidden toxic narratives holding you back. We’ll break them down into tiny pieces, and eliminate them one by one.
We’ll replace those toxic narratives with empowering mindsets that reflect how strong and resilient you are today. We’ll also reinforce that new DNA in situations you’ve struggled with before, so you won’t go back to your old beliefs. Your new strength has staying power.
Now the fun begins! We’ll build the system for identifying and effortlessly achieving your goals and dreams. You’ll learn how to stay accountable to reach those dreams faster than you ever thought possible.
I’m way too busy loving my post-divorce life, having fun, and looking forward to the future.
For the first time in my life, I have a sense of purpose and feel like I can do anything.
My family, friends, and new boyfriend(!) see me as a bold and fearless woman who’s not afraid to take matters into her own hands, and who doesn’t need anybody’s permission to get what she wants out of life.
And I think they’re right! :)
I am a Leo sun and Scorpio rising (hey hey---outgoing but also a keeper of secrets!)
"I am so glad that I made this investment in myself. Martha helped me see that I am not helpless and that doing the work to build a new life will bring in good feelings and good experiences and good human connections."
"Working with Martha has been awesome, and an incredible investment in myself. I felt so stuck after my divorce, and now I’m strong and actually happy for the first time in my life. I couldn’t have done it without her."