"My goal was to find out whether or not I’d be interested in dating.
I’m from a generation where when it came to dating, shit just happened. I grew up thinking I’d be lucky if I did get married. Thinking about dating today, it was like, “Oh my god. How would you even start to navigate this whole process, you know?”
What I’ve learned from Martha is how to date in a way that feels empowering for me. I needed to understand that I had agency in the process of dating. And I needed to learn how to exercise that agency in a way that would be comfortable for me. After working with her, I have total confidence in my ability to go out there and meet with someone. Martha's a powerhouse and she knows her stuff.
Worried you’ll somehow do it wrong, or marry a carbon copy of your ex, or never find love and become a Celtic bog witch in the 6th century
(Hey, worst comes to worst, Celtic bog witch life sounds kinda cool)
But when you think about putting yourself out there again?
You don’t feel empowered.
You’ve done your time on relationship rollercoasters, you’ve gained some hard-earned wisdom, and you’ve had real, lasting relationships.
You know more about yourself and feel more comfortable in your skin than you ever did in your 20s (thank god).
Instead of trying to go it alone with Google as your guide, I want to invite you to join a group of badass women who are also done with the BS, ready to approach dating from a place that centers their life experiences, and who are in it together.
And that’s not something anyone teaches you how to do.
(Or… feel the fear and do it anyway)
The first step isn’t braving the apps (unless you want to). It’s figuring out where to begin, how to articulate what you want, and how to find what you’re looking for. I’ve got a guide to help:
"I can finally have fun dating at midlife!
I gained not only a sense of peace and self-confidence that I wouldn't have otherwise, but also improved my physical, mental, and spiritual health in a way that would not have otherwise occurred."
You deserve it.
And when it leads to love, you deserve that, too.
If it’s been awhile, (like, 30 years awhile), I want you to know you’re:
A) Not alone
B) Specifically invited to click this button:
I’m asking when the last time was that you did something just for you: the whole-ass, badass individual you are.
If you’ve read this far, I want to ask you something...
Dating for the first time in many years is overwhelming. I've got a guide to help. (No swiping involved.)
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