Are you still in a food coma from Thanksgiving? Or maybe you’re soaking up the festive vibes or just counting the days until January 2nd when it’s all over. Being a single gal dating over 50 during the holidays can be a mixed bag, right? But no worries, I got your back with some tips […]
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If you would rather pull your own nose hairs out than get back out there into the dating scene in your 40s and beyond, fear not, because I’ve got your back. It’s Dating Coach Martha Bodyfelt, your go-to gal for dating advice that doesn’t sugarcoat things about your dating life after 40. I know that […]
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As the air crisps and leaves are on their way to the ground, it’s time to refocus on crafting a tantalizing and flirtatious fall season! The days are shortening, the cozy vibes are emerging, and you might get the urge to spice-up your dating life after a quiet or hectic summer. As older women dating, […]
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As the leaves change and the crisp autumn air embraces us, there’s something undeniably magical about fall. It’s a season of transition. Kind of like women dating over 40, embracing their badass power and experience and translating it into their dating lives. Falling for Yourself – Confidence is Key The first lesson that fall teaches […]
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If you are like most women, you have yearned for self love, that elusive confidence and unshakeable comfort in your own skin. At this point in our lives, midlife, a lot of things change, including our hormones, and they impact everything, our wrinkles, belly fat, cravings, difficulty losing weight… But if you know what is […]
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Have you ever taken a stroll through the dazzling world of online dating advice? If you have, you’re probably familiar with the gut-wrenching frustration that comes with it. Navigating the absurdity of dating after 40 is not for wimps. The dating industry seems to have perfected the art of offering advice so painfully obvious that […]
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In life, sometimes it can be easy to prioritize our goals and successes over our love life. Especially if we are really rocking it in our careers. I know because I have been there. My career was my life because I was kicking ass and taking names and my love life was just a series […]
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There are so many apprehensions that often come with midlife dating. Dating at this stage of life can be challenging, but with the right approach, you can conquer your fears and find the love you deserve. With these 5 steps, you can overcome your fear and anxiety about dating in your 40s. Let’s delve into […]
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Many grown adult women in midlife and better find themselves thinking about dating. You might be one of them. Unfortunately, most of those thoughts around dating tend to be very negative. What you really wish you could do is skip the dating and go right to the part where you have the amazing lover of […]
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“Help! I don’t know how to date! I think love seems to be eluding me because I don’t know how to date.” If that sounds like you, you are not alone. So many women come to me and say, “Dating in your 40s is scary and nobody taught me how. I don’t know how to […]
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How are we supposed to date when we’re trying to take care of people we love? Making space for both of those things can be difficult. So let us take a look at the best ways for grown women to manage dating and caregiving. To begin with, it’s vital to become grounded in the reasons […]
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If you want to have a fun, playful summer this year full of interesting incredible men, then you’ll want to avoid a few things. To have a great summer of flirting, check out the following tips on what NOT to do for women dating over 40. So these are the things that I would invite […]
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It’s time to focus on how to actually have a sexy & fun summer for women dating over 40! The weather is getting nicer, the days are getting longer, and you’re feeling that spring fever. Maybe this last winter, your dating life has been dormant. Maybe you have been busy. So maybe you haven’t dated […]
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We, as women, are holding back in our dating lives because we’re afraid of rejection, and it’s important to deal with it. That’s why I’m sharing how you can overcome fear of rejection in dating by never making these 2 mistakes again. This is a major component in all my programs. I teach my Ready […]
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I have a very simple formula with just three steps to better dating over 40, and to help you have an incredible successful year at love. First, I do not recommend dating for four months. This may sound very counterintuitive. For the first four months of this process, don’t go on a single date. Bear […]
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Here’s How To Find Love Again After 50 For Successful Women. It’s very simple, but it’s not easy. Amazingly, there is actually just one thing that makes all the difference. So what is this one thing? What is the one thing that separates these women who are successful in their careers but also successful in […]
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In my experience of being a dating coach, I have come across the four most powerful beliefs that guarantee love at any age. If you can shift your mindset around these four things, your chances of finding the healthy, wonderful, fulfilling relationship you are yearning for will skyrocket. But to do that, we are going […]
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Learn the Dating DNA that will show you how to avoid common dating mistakes, stop the self-sabotage, and crack the code for finding secure love at 40, 50, 60, and beyond. Welcome to Ready for Love, a premium coaching experience for grown-ass women ready to be in a healthy relationship full of sparks. If not […]
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When it comes to a scarcity mindset, I’ve got a really embarrassing story to share with you. Right after my divorce, I was in a shitshow of a relationship with a guy. Let’s call him Jared. He was my boss’s boss. His wife had recently moved out. Oh, and he was a high-ranking military colonel […]
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Are struggling to let go of divorce pain, but seem to be stuck in your own head? Then I have a question for you…. Have you ever seen The Matrix? I’ve heard the new one that just came out is trash, but I’m talking about the awesome ones from like 2003 where smokin’ hot Keanu […]
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3 reasons you’re struggling to move on, and 3 ways to get unstuck after divorce In your journey to heal after your divorce, there are three things sabotaging your efforts. You’re not even conscious of it. But these three mindsets regularly throw a wrench in the plans of most women who are desperate to raise […]
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If you’re like most professional women going through divorce or recovering from it, self-doubt is the weight you constantly carry on your shoulders. It’s the reason you struggle with getting your self-esteem back after divorce. Although you’re successful at work, there may be that annoying voice in the back of your head telling you that you’re […]
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Do you want to learn how to stop being a people pleaser, but aren’t sure where to start? Do you find yourself, despite all your professional success and beautiful home you’ve created for yourself, afraid to step on anybody’s toes? Are you the kind of woman who, despite wanting to take Saturday afternoon for yourself […]
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Many women struggle with feeling confident after divorce, unable to move on because they are still plagued by feelings of guilt, selfishness, and that they “don’t deserve it.” If learning ancient Greek sounds easier to you than putting yourself first, you’re not alone. For years, divorced women absorbed messaging that made us believe that we […]
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Want to feel more confident outside of work when you’re divorced? As a divorce recovery coach for professional women, there is a common theme I see in all of my clients. I bet you fall into this category, too! You’re hard-working and dedicated to the profession you chose You care deeply about your work and […]
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Ah, the 4 secrets of confident divorced women. In my years as a divorce recovery coach, I’ve found that these traits exist in every single divorced woman who’s healed from all the divorce pain. If you want to know the secrets of confident divorced women, think about the following. It doesn’t matter her professional background, […]
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Trying to boost self-confidence after divorce but struggling? After divorce, your confidence and self-esteem may be in the gutter. You may consider yourself a failure, wondering what the hell is wrong with you that you “couldn’t keep a marriage together.” When trying to boost your self confidence after divorce, you may judge yourself, constantly doing […]
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When it comes to getting confident after divorce, there’s a phrase that’s been going around the interwebz that I’m obsessed with. Big D*ck Energy. Call it what you want. Whether it’s BDE, Battle Goddess Energy, Wonder Woman Energy, it’s that extreme confidence and sense of self-worth that lets you uproot the toxic narratives that keep […]
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After your divorce, you may be tempted to follow your heart, quit your job, and do all of the things that you’ve seen in movies. But you might not trust yourself after divorce. But if you’re like most divorced women, you probably feel stuck in the same routine. The same unfulfilling job. Still looking at the […]
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Want to know how to speak up for yourself after divorce? If you’re struggling with speaking up for yourself after divorce, I have a story. What happened when I started speaking up for myself after divorce. When I started speaking up for myself after divorce, 3 incredible things happened. Now, here’s the disclaimer: speaking up […]
